Where are all of these guys that are interested in black women? I live in Detroit but work, attend school and shop in suburban, predominatly white areas. I'm an attractive chick whose dated a white guy before and would be open to doing it again but I don't get approached by them. What should I do? Where should I go?
I really wouldn’t stress that much about it love. There’s no secret meeting/hang out spot for white men who love black women. lol. I got in both of my IR relationships by just having white guy friends….who eventually asked me out.
If a relationship is what you currently want, you should focus on finding a great guy, regardless of race. And if he happens to be white, make sure to submit a photo to the blog haha.
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Ok! So I am 18&this guy I've met about 2 mnths ago @ Stripes(his job)is 30 he immediately flirted w/ me that day&every time I came in so he asked for my number three days ago&we have hung out at his the last 2 nights since then he is everything that I've wanted in a guy w/o me even opening up&telling him what I'm looking for in a guy, but the problem is AGE!!!!! I know for a fact my parents won't approve of that he is literally 10 years younger than them, but he is so amazing, what should I do?
12 years is a BIG gap. Unfortunately, older guys tend to know how vulnerable and impressionable younger girls are. They tend to play on the whole “im a mature guy who can provide” ruse to get you to fall in love. I would suggest waiting to date him when you’re older and at most keep it at a friendship right now.
Im 23, and im a completely different woman than I was at 18. Can you imagine how much different i’ll be at 25…even 30? Same goes for him. What can you two have in common more than a few things? A 30 year old man has seen and lived MUCH more than you have. It just doesn’t seem like the right age to be in such a “mature” relationship.