Hi! so first off i love this blog so much! i'm a 17 year old black girl and i've never had a boyfriend or been kissed (sad i know.. haha) and i'm naturally attracted to white guys. i'm kinda scared that white guys aren't attracted to me because they are scared that i'm black. idk really what to think honestly. could it be that being black is intimidating to them? i'm starting college in the fall so i'm hoping i'll be able to find more forward and open minded guys. thanks for the help!
I was talking with my soror who has a white boyfriend (we are the only two in the chapter lol) and we did discuss that we have learned a lot of white men are sometimes nervous and maybe too intimidated by black women. Dont walk around with that mindset though. I went from a HUGE city thats really diverse to a small town college, so people were actually LESS open minded. But i still managed to get in an IR relationship lol. My response is: there’s hope!
Just go to school, join orgs, meet new people, make good grades and live.
The love will flow into your life naturally.