I got a question for you but before I get to it, let me first say that I'm a Black man who believes in interracial dating when done right. So my question to you is how do you "help" young black girls and ladies who are attracted to whites because they've fallen for the media scam that all Black men are to be feared? Girls and ladies who are engaged in a form of self hatred? Clearly I'm not asking you to become a therapist but I for one am always careful to preach that we deeply examine motive.
If you see my responses, I encourage women to date to find love. Not purposely seek out white males or ANY race in particular. One thing you wont catch me doing is saying “Black men aint shit” because my step father, grandfather, uncle, cousins and brother are ALL GREAT black men who have molded me into the woman I am today, along with the women in my family/life.
I get several “ugh I hate black men, this blog is the best” responses a DAY that I dont post because this blog promotes LOVE in general.
I have dated several black men and have had enjoyable experiences. I am in an IR relationship now, but that doesnt mean that my experience in one belittles my experiences with black men. Black women and men are queens and kings in my opinion.
I started this blog for the woman who believed that they will never be attractive to another race. We as black women are often regarded as sex kittens with an uncontrollable sexual urge or as easily discarded, worthless and uneducated human beings. If a woman who follows me has self hatred problems, i encourage them to seek out help and seek what makes them feel that way. However, I personally am not equipped to help them. I am also not here to encourage women to leave their black men and date white men. I am just here showing a different image of what society and the media wants you to see…that black women are desirable by more than their black men.
Hope I answered this correctly.