hey so i'm a black girl, 17 years old and i am more attracted to white and asian guys. I'm not writing off black guys, but i haven't really found myself liking one. but whenever i mention this to my friends they always give me weird looks and the way they respond its kind of like "good luck finding a white/asian guy to date you" and that hurts and sometimes i feel like i should just settle with a black guy.
Dont think of dating a black man as settling. I love IR relationships, but that doesnt mean I am against or opposed to dating a black man. The goal of love is to find someone who loves you as much as you love them and someone who makes you better. Someone you enjoy spending time with. So if a guy makes you feel that way, regardless of race, go for HIM.
Dont worry about your “friends”. That was sketchy of them to say. I wish you the best in love.