Black Girls| White Boys

Anonymous asked:

Hi! so first off i love this blog so much! i'm a 17 year old black girl and i've never had a boyfriend or been kissed (sad i know.. haha) and i'm naturally attracted to white guys. i'm kinda scared that white guys aren't attracted to me because they are scared that i'm black. idk really what to think honestly. could it be that being black is intimidating to them? i'm starting college in the fall so i'm hoping i'll be able to find more forward and open minded guys. thanks for the help!

I was talking with my soror who has a white boyfriend (we are the only two in the chapter lol)  and we did discuss that we have learned a lot of white men are sometimes nervous and maybe too intimidated by black women. Dont walk around with that mindset though. I went from a HUGE city thats really diverse to a small town college, so people were actually LESS open minded. But i still managed to get in an IR relationship lol. My response is: there’s hope!

Just go to school, join orgs, meet new people, make good grades and live.

The love will flow into your life naturally.

:)

Anonymous asked:

hey so i'm a black girl, 17 years old and i am more attracted to white and asian guys. I'm not writing off black guys, but i haven't really found myself liking one. but whenever i mention this to my friends they always give me weird looks and the way they respond its kind of like "good luck finding a white/asian guy to date you" and that hurts and sometimes i feel like i should just settle with a black guy.

Dont think of dating a black man as settling. I love IR relationships, but that doesnt mean I am against or opposed to dating a black man. The goal of love is to find someone who loves you as much as you love them and someone who makes you better. Someone you enjoy spending time with. So if a guy makes you feel that way, regardless of race, go for HIM.

Dont worry about your “friends”. That was sketchy of them to say. I wish you the best in love.

:)

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Two photos of myself and my ex. We’re still friends now, but there isn’t a day when I don’t miss him.

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